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Oh Dear Adele, what can the matter be...



ADELE

 is 

"DATING"

so called 

"grime king" 

Skepta.

A Rapper.


  While she is now single 
& wishing to mingle. 
 She needs to lift her sights.
 HE IS A COMPLETE NIGHTMARE... 
  Mind you he won't 
be getting any. 
Pressies under the 
Xmas Tree...


Comments

T. W. said…
Wait, I thought she was getting too close to Prince Harry, bonding over their love of alcoholic beverages?
Chick'sOpinion said…
I tend to think, this guy is what a lot of girls (and some guys) have in their life. Just once. For awhile.
It’s just a sexcapade. Fun.
And they are usually bad boys.
But for life?
No.
Because pretty soon, their addiction, violence and cheating becomes unavoidably visible.
If only men were as satisfying as chocolate.
Well these kind of guys are the nearest thing to chocolate.
But eventually, they have to go.
The song Beautiful Stranger by Madonna came to mind when I read this post about Adele and this new man.

Also, I recall CD sayin that the father of Adele’s child. The one she’s recently left. Treated her bad.
Who would have the arrogance to treat Adele bad?
Chick'sOpinion said…
Singer Alice Cooper was right.

'Only Women bleed'
Chick'sOpinion said…
Skepta is British but his parents are Nigerian.
I think Adele thinks she connects with him because he is from an area in London where she is from.
Tottenham.
And it's well known she loves the place.

Skepta was in a 2015 movie. Called Anti-Social.
Perhaps he was well cast for that.
It's a Hungarian Crime film about Gangs in London.
And guess who was also in that film.
Meghan Markle.

Is this Skepta guy using Adele? I'm not sure. Because he's succesful in his right.
In Nigeria they have even made him a Cheif in his parents home town in Ogun State.
CAT said…
Adele, man. I think she's proof that you could be one of the coolest, most talented and successful people on the planet and still be susceptible to jerks if you don't have your internal world figured out. 😔
Universeunlimited said…
Chick's Opinion well said bout Skepta 😀 but music is good especially "Shutdown".
Mariefass said…
love Adele but girl needs to find herself a good man.
T. W. said…
I see people are making Nigerian Prince jokes already.

He's Nigerian descent. So what? A jerk can have any ethnicity.
Chick'sOpinion said…
Universeunlimited

CAT

Hi

And you have to admit. He's not bad looking too.
Bad boys often have that tempting 'look'.
I'm thinkin, Maybe Adele has been wanting to be alot more 'adventurous' in her personal life. For a long time.
But her weight problem held her back, body confidence held her back.
And now she's kinda skinny.
Well, she's gonna have a few flings.
Agree CAT. Her internal world must not be worked out yet.
But I do think, whatever messed up internal world caused you to end up with a bad boy for a while. It's Okay.
I have the attitude of never regret flings with bad boys.
It's just something you had to learn.
And are very much wiser for it. Once it's over.
Very painful sometimes.
But...If it never caused you to go to jail.
It's not that big a deal.
You learn alot about yourself when you decide to walk away from a bad boy.
And you shouldn't spend your life beating yourself up over a relationship with one.

And anyway, they can be good at teaching you how to have fun. If they are not dark personalities.
I think there will be plenty of men interested in Adele.
Sadly too many of them will be Goldiggers.
I don't think Skepta is. A goldigger. He is very involved in the production side of music. And as we know, well into his own career.
He's more relevant than her right now too.
Quiet said…
I think I would feel better if she hooked up with any NBA player who is easy to find stuff out on and more low key than this rapper.
CAT said…
Hi @Chick'sOpinion

Well I've never had a bf at all but my best friend did and after a year of crying and feeling worthless and stupid and gullible for not seeing through him in time, she eventually came to a similar conclusion too.

That as painful as it was, it was what made her realize a lot about her boundaries and intuition and inability to be alome in the process, which she thinks she wouldn't have learnt if she never met him. So now she has cut him out and moved on but she still doesn't regret the experience because she says it was just to help her find herself and her voice and understand what she did want in her relationships. Before that I remember she was one of those people that just wanted a "bf". Meaning she had no real standards or boundaries.

I relate to her but fortunately these same lessons about strengthening my boundaries came to me the easier way through experiences with shitty friends and family not through any romantic/sexual relationships because I've noticed that in those cases since there are feelings, biology, etc. involved it makes everything 300 times harder more difficult and complex.
Chick'sOpinion said…
CAT

Agree. Learning boundaries and limits is less confronting. And easier...if it's just about friendships.
Chick'sOpinion said…
Adele has to learn. There's no formula for happiness, that's guaranteed to work.
But there's The Power Of Now.
By Eckhart Tolle.
Best book ever written on how to acheive happiness. Every day.
Or the closest thing to it.

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