Alexandra Grant. More lies? Did she forget she married another person 10 years ago... & is still married... UPDATE...
I had a dream about Alexandra Grant. (Which in it's self is disturbing) This is what I saw in the dream. I SAW... Alexandra Grant is married. Not to Keanu Reeves. T he marriage took place around 9/10 years ago on the East coast of America. (Not New York City) I Saw She was in a very close relationship with this "Person" I See she was paid to do this... The person she is married to is of dubious character... This person has been "Away" for quite a while... (If you know what I mean) This person is threatening to return.. She will... To expose the marriage & other criminal behaviors they both had a part in. As I write this. Keanu Reeves & his team. Do not know of this. Alexandra, knows is still legally married. Has her head in the sand. Hoping it will go away... STAY TUNED... MORE TO COME...
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I am very sorry for the predicament your are experiencing at the moment. You are a lovely person who is trying your very best and I am sure your sister is grateful for everything you are doing. I don't have any answers for you but will pray for both you and your sister. May God bless you both and all who are suffering 💖🙏
I feel you made this decision totally because you love your sister so your decision is right. God looks after everyone so I'm sure many Angel's are around you at the moment.
I have empathy for you and your sister.
As I read your comment I thought “your sister was not in her right mind when she made that request.”
I’m not talking about the feeding tube & such.
If she has a DNR, a living will, & medical power of attorney documents please review them as soon as you can. Also note the date your sister signed those documents. Was she in her right mind when those documents were drafted? Was she in her right mind when she signed them?
You may also wish to consult with an attorney.
With Stage 6 dementia your sister could potentially live for 5 more years. I suspect she knows this & I think she knows how bad those final years can be. I could command the blessing of healing but she may not want that. She may want to go home.
Please make sure her affairs are in order. I have a feeling your sister was really saying she will be transitioning to The Beyond very soon. People always know when their “time” is near. Please do not be sad about this. If this is the case, this is more merciful than living in Stages 6 & 7 of dementia. Dementia is cruel.
You need support. You can get it virtually!
Here’s a link from the Alzheimer’s Association
Support Groups
https://www.alz.org/help-support/community/support-groups
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It is my prayer that when she goes home that her transition and passing to The Beyond is quick and painless.
I have just said a prayer for both of you.
Please know God is real.
God is The Light and the Source of light.
God is Love and the Source of love.
When we transition to The Beyond and make it upstairs we go home to Love to love and to be loved.
We love you and we are here for you.
With love and care,
HRH T. W. 😘
Teacher Wendy,
Cordelia’s comment appeared after I wrote my first response. I agree with her, you did the right thing because you did it out of love for her.
Can your sister drink Ensure?
Sometimes people with dementia are briefly in their right minds. If your sister is adamant about going Home, maybe consider hospice/palliative care. Just make sure you read the medical power of attorney document.
Death by starvation is a long, painful, cruel process.
When my dad caught a UTI while in the nursing home, his oldest child told the hospital to withhold food & water. That child had the medical power of attorney & legal power of attorney for other matters. Dad had been saying for 6 months he wanted to go home. My sisters and I knew what he meant. But I tell you what. Watching the UTI take its course as food and water were withheld was torture fir him & us. Dad lived for several more days.
I’m still upset about it but at least he is Home now.
Now here’s some good news.
He was smiling in his casket.
Have had some experience with hospice care. What you are doing (and not doing) is the most loving thing for your sister but, unfortunately, the most difficult thing for you.
Much love and prayers for you. We are here for you and are listening.
Related to your sister's issue. An evaluation needs to be made with the neurologist - geriatrician, be medicated and the family oriented. As I understand it, she hasn't been eating well. I could go to a speech therapist for better evaluation. It can get malnourished, among other issues.
May God give you strength and wisdom!
Dear Wendy
Yes you had to try. You
have lost so many people
in your life, of course you
had to try, there is no other
way at all.
No one can understand that
who has not experienced it,
nothing about it is simple.
Everything about you wants
to hold on her, every second
that she is still here. -
I would try to get your sister
placed in a hospice, where
she can get all the love she
needs, drink and eat as she
needs it, or get fluids through
IVs, be lovingly cared for
every day, and leave, when
the time comes.
You two have a connection.
Let others take care of her,
do the things, where you are
replaceable. Then you can
continue to be there for her,
where nothing can replace
you, in your Love for her,
being with her, having
loving moments without
having to care for her
or hold her on. ❤️
Wendy
Maybe it is happened
so that you can both
prepare for that she
leaves, so that
something changes.
Give yourself the chance
to let her slowly go. ❤️
I wish you strength and wisdom for that moment. Stay in peace Wendy
Perguntei à professora Wendy se sua irmã poderia beber um produto chamado Garanta. É um substituto de refeição.
Outra pessoa e eu acreditamos que sua irmã estava comunicando que ela fará a transição para a vida após a morte. Aconselhamos a professora Wendy a se preparar para isso.